Out of the blue, a church member said to me, “I feel the attraction of Catholicism. The idea of praying to Mary would be a lot easier for me than praying to a God called ‘Father.’” She went on to share how severe her own father had been and how he died when she was still in her early teens. He had left her with scars, and they got in the way of her relationship with God. While her situation was unique, many people experience a similar struggle. Overcoming this involves a number of deliberate steps. Consider these three.